Use the Rules, Don’t Follow Them
Thursday, July 8th, 2010They’ve long been the standard tool teachers use to correct papers. And they’re a curse to every student who’s ever seen something they’ve written dripping red. Why? Because you’ve broken the rules, of course.
The rules. Those things that make sure all of us communicate in roughly the same way. Some might tell you it’s how to tell “proper” English from what the rest of the riff-raff writes or speaks. But that’s not really what the rules are all about.
They’re really about making sure we can all understand each other. If every person followed their own rules of writing, we’d quickly lose the ability to make people understand what we’re trying to say.
So then the rules are good, right?
Well, not exactly. Anyone who’s been paying attention to this post so far should have noticed that I’ve broken the rules several times already. Microsoft Word is telling me I’ve already written three sentence fragments – on purpose.
So then the rules aren’t so good?
Well…let’s get a little clear about this. Rules are good in the sense that they set the parameters of the game. In this case, the game is writing well.
But the rules do cause problems. Here are just a few of the biggies – they limit choices, they extinguish creativity, and they destroy individuality. It sounds awful. Don’t worry though. This is exactly what the rules were designed to do. By making a standard form, we can usually understand the writing of every single person who puts pen to paper.
If you want your writing to stand out though, you can’t simply follow the rules and expect you to be a good writer. You need to have a sense of style and write with your own voice too.
So how do you balance when to follow the rules and when to follow your own style. Clear communication is what you’re after. If communicating clearly means you should follow the rules, do it. But if you can’t get the idea across the way you want to without ignoring or bending a rule or two, then follow your instincts. Most of the sentences I’ve written here follow the rules, but I’ve broken a few when I thought the writing was better doing it my own way.
Here are a few of my own rules that help me create my personal style:
- Use contractions – it’s more like the way we all speak.
- Try a sentence fragment here and there – it makes a point, so long as you don’t do it too often
- A paragraph can’t be too short…but it can be too long.
Just remember that the rules are there to help you. If you feel like they’re holding you back, go ahead and break a few.
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